Prejudice against anomaly

Question begin with ‘Quest’ – quest for curiosity so that we can abjure the legacy of uncertainty ,tumult , chaos. Superstitions, gossips all combined feed lies to wolves hungry for conspiracy theories , ultimately obscuring the reality.

  • Why does it happen to be always a man telling his wife ” I want to give you a life of luxury!” and not the other way round?
  • Why everytime only a  man is expected to assist a lady carrying multiple or heavy luggages?
  • Why everytime it’s the man who is obligated to pay on a date with his lady ?
  • Why, its the  boy who is being mocked at for using makeup or for wearing girlish clothes and not the girl when she wears men’s t shirts or shirts ?
  • Why only a girl is expected to have all the perfect features & characteristics to be able get married and not the boy ?
  • Why everytime it’s the girl in the family who is most denigrated for choosing a boy of different caste than a boy who choose to marry a girl from other caste ?

You see a common thing in this- prejudice against anomaly. I don’t intend for any sort of quotidian ranting and raving about ‘female injustice’ or subject you guys to mundane harangue on ‘equality for women’ .

But ,whenever there is an aberrance from the conventional , it happens to create a fuss. People tend to be reluctant in accepting unconventional things in their day to day life.They leave no stones unturned to foil attempts of those who want to approach their life in an idiosyncratic manner , who want to adopt bizarre methods in their itinerary. They sow the seeds of casting aspersions on or taking mickey out of people hankering for avant garde ways .This simply impugns the mettle underneath .Such situations paint a dire picture of the world’s future.It is the change that leads to transformation or a revamp.Transformation would mean a literal change in something – irrespective of from a good to bad or bad to good. But I wanna convey the importance of improvement/ revamping in our lives. Unless you embrace any sort of modification in your life , you ‘ll desist your own progress and ‘ll be susceptible to degression.

If carving a path of our own rather than blindly following the one accepted by the society makes us a pariah then ultimately our exploration on what's in store for us shall be hindered.

Hope you excuse my grammatical errors or typos, if any.

3 mandatory ‘STOPS’ to implement for body confidence

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Hope you’re all doing well !

My second video is out on youtube. https://youtu.be/PvS6qLwePdA

Do check it out and let me know. I’ve tried keeping the video short & crisp,since I’m not a big fan of lengthy and boring ones.

Hope you enjoy the video and find the tips useful in your life!

Ballsy-Bold-Badass

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I’m not sure how relatable I’m gonna get with my pictures here, once I start penning down thoughts focussing on boldness, since, several times, chaos in my mind happen to sidetrack the blog and I end up typing about some different topic.

I’ve been questioned several times by people , regarding my clothing . They bombard me with “How can you wear revealing clothes,all the time ?” or “Why do you try to be so ostentatious and flamboyant with your clothes?”. Honestly speaking, I have a predilection towards clothes which can flaunt my body as it makes me feel exuberant and confident and close on the heels, the sexiness emanated from it.

Born in an Indian family , we girls are being instructed not to expose our body, since it delivers a wrong message to the men out there and ultimately leads to untoward incidents. It is not easy to stem the tide of this opinion of our ancestors,which is bereft of the truth that human mentality is to be held accountable for this and not our clothing. We’ve to keep kicking our heels untill this notion or perspective becomes a thing of the past.No doubt , world is not safe for females even today, be it the 21st century. But does that mean , we should shy away from wearing clothes we desire to don.Definitely a big NO ! And if you’re to consider the latter part of the family’s notion mentioned above , well, irrespective of our clothing, our safety lies in our own hands ,right?

Posting these pictures on social media would swamp my account with an avalanche of remarks and judgement and criticism,undeniably. Critics are anyway born to hurl derogatory words at every second thing they come across.

The world still looks in awe to some extremely eccentric and unorthodox ways of clothing.Some off-the-wall outfit or a costume would sound far fetched for this world.Those adopting unconventional and idiosyncratic fashion are greeted with derision and disdain, let alone roaming buck naked. Isn’t this in stark contrast to the days of modernisation and upgradation ?

Change cannot occur without change!

Unless we express the change and manifest it with conviction & confidence and certainly not getting bogged down by the opprobium generated, we would not be able to come out of our ordinary and pedestrian shell of our life.Eventually, this will make world question the conventional patterns and would compel them to pave way to new ways of thinking.

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Moody Edit

Recently , I tried my hands at some different – Moody kind of edits , with the help of a youtube tutorial . Felt pretty cool!!! Gonna try some more .

Amazing tutorials for photo editing with the help of Lightroom .

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Make up

“Uski beti kitna make up karti h , pura din bus lipstick lagake ghumti h !”

Well , If you’re Indian ,you definitely might have come across such stereotypical aunties and their looks with askance, atleast once in your life ! Lucky you , if you have not ! Because to say “you’ve eluded them” would be far-fetched and “Whisper &Smear Campaign” is their moto.

No wonder ,all those aphorisms , ‘Looks are superficial’ ,etc do promulgate reality. But they don’t stop you from enhancing your already beautiful biological features!There are times when we feel so bogged down by looking at someone else’s symmetrical eyebrows or alluring lips and thoughts like ‘we don’t measure up to this standard of “beauty” ‘ start surfacing our mind.
Make up is a therapy for this .No matter ,how ephemeral and temporal this would be ,its just enough to bolster your confidence in yourself.And there you would be with all the ebullience and exuberance flowing through and around your mind & body as naturally as the air we breathe.

And how ridiculous is this alliance between a girl who loves during make up anytime or everytime and her capability to do work,be at her job or managing household chores.I mean,if putting on some lipstick and liner helps her feel confident ,why shouldn’t she ?So,eschew those preposterous tell tales and do whatever you feel would make you look more beautiful!

My canvas

Unless you give it a try , you cannot explore yourself .During my school days , I arrant despised and used to elude my drawing classes.

Recently , after trying my hand at simple sketches I decided to take a step ahead and try easy-peasy canvas paintings .This helped me develop confidence and motivated me to try more.

Well,to talk about social media ,in my opinion ,you must share and publish as much as you can .This will provide you with the mixed reviews on your work from your friends which will allow you to think from different perspectives.

Cheap and cheerful skin care routine

Its been quite a few months since I have bogged a topic in particular. This idea emerges from my today’s refreshing bath with gram flour and milk when I realised this is something which I can disseminate information on.I happen to deviate a lot.Sometimes I happen to begin with a topic which I decide to set my focus on and end up penning down words on some arrant different topic. Let me not jinx my own blog this time!

We , Indians are known for the best usage of all those which are naturally available for instance ,gram flour, turmeric, sandalwood, aloe vera ,etc.for the enrichment and nourishment of our skin .Our dream to have a perfect skin often make us spend money behind skin care products and parlor treatments.However,this is possible without burning a hole in your pocket too.Home remedies do wonders on our skin , minus any side effects.

Our grand parents led an austere life be it in terms of food,clothing and what not. We might have rarely heard of grand mothers and great grand mothers drop by the spa and salons to get their manicure or facials or hair spa done and yet had this glowing,gorgeous and impeccable skin that every woman desire for .The reason is evident here.They availed the benefits of such naturally grown things as much as they could .They were not as prodigal as we are today when it comes to taking care of our skin or body as a whole.They were not ignorant the way we are , of the ways in which you can utilize what this magnanimous & big-hearted bestows upon us.

Today , we are living a life of luxury where we are unwilling to step out of the cocoon.We would shilly-shally about spending bucks on our cosmetics, merely influenced by the advertisements of such zillions of cosmetic brands who are 90% indulged in “money making”.These products ,lets say , promises to restore your skin and recover the damage and even protect from further damage but the question arises which product to trust and will it work for your skin or not. In such a quandary ,only saviour are home made scrubs and masks which contain 100% natural ingredients and you do not even have to worry about emptying your pockets .May be you can spend the same money in some productive manner.

The ostentatious and flashy features of these cosmetics tempt us to purchase them. After all , we are all about putting our grandeur on airs because using the naturally grown aloe vera for face mask would be a sign of destitution or parsimony even.

Our skin is delicate and in today’s monotonous and hectic routine , our skin tends to become dry and gloomy due to stress, lack of sleepy, nutrition ,etc. exposing it to harmful chemicals of the cosmetics should be a strict NO! We should ply by home remedies instead.So steer clear of the fancy cosmetic brands trying to gain name and fame by increasing their business and stick to natural remedies !

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